Lois

Honesty to the point of pain.

Empathy to the point of reciprocal suffering.

An inquiring intellect!!!!

A sense of humour as dry as a martini in the Sahara.

An ability to laugh at self.

A capacity for holding the suffering of others, and understanding.

The ability not to judge others.

Music...

Warm, curvy and cuddly.

People talk about my smile, and the gentleness with which I approach others...it is Lois who taught me how to smile in the midst of...everything...especially when your world cracks up and there is nowhere left to go and howl...